Showing posts with label Happy. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Happy. Show all posts

Tuesday, July 1, 2014

Happiness is imagination

It is our need to be happy, to have a healthy life but more than that it is the necessity to remain at peace with everything. Taking the analogy from Zeroth law of thermodynamics, which states that when two bodies are in equilibrium, third body in contact if in equilibrium with first body than it has to be in equilibrium with the second body. If our body is at peace with our soul, then anything which comes to us would be at peace. 

Unfortunately Zeroth law talks only about the final state of equilibrium- the eternal peaceful state. But it doesn't talk about the path taken to achieve that. To our rescue comes in the First law of thermodynamics, which talks about the balance of energy; give something, a part of it would be consumed and the rest given out. The law balances out everything.

According to psychology, a person who smiles or laughs a lot, is said to be unhappy deep inside. So basically, the person is giving out happiness by consuming the pain. To quote a world-class example- is the most beautiful Taj mahal!  Everyone appreciates its beauty and architecture; but no one talks about the workers behind the magnificent structure that is said to be the embodiment of love. The workers were poorly treated with their hands amputated by the emperor so that they wouldn’t build such a beauty again.

Another example - when we say Gandhi was responsible for non-violence, he was the winner; but at the cost of many lives. The list of examples is umpteen. In all the examples, it can clearly be understood what the inputs, outputs and consumed are. 

Now let us look into the second law of thermodynamics, which comprises of two statements, and each of the statement starts with, ''it is impossible to ...'' . Briefly speaking about the first statement, it says, '' it is impossible to work with a single reservoir''.  Hence lays the importance of having a source and sink.

From the above examples it is evident that source and sink go hand in hand. The second statement of the law states that, '' it is impossible to extract energy from low temperature to high temperature without doing any work''.

People who ‘believe’ they are at peace are more vulnerable than the ones who are actually at peace on a day-to-day basis. It is very easy for the former ones to lose their so-called ‘peace’ due to minute things. The latter ones are stronger in their personality and it takes a lot of effort to change them or perturb them and it can’t happen all by itself.

The bottom line is that, to remain at peace and to enter the real temple of peace we have to walk on the rubble of pain or suffering of self or of anyone. So my query is how can such a person be at peace? Because those things will follow us and we cant discard them. Our memories and thought won’t let that happen.

Also, life or state of happiness is never an absolute entity. It doesn’t exist by itself. So this means, we really can never be happy. Happiness is just an illusion…!


Happiness is not an ideal of reason, but of imagination .... # Immanuel Kant.  

Thursday, April 24, 2014

Every cloud has a silver lining .... :)

Indeed -Every cloud has a silver lining! It means that you should never feel hopeless because difficult times always lead to better days.

In relation to the silver lining aspect, there is a strong theory to back it up. My very dear friend introduced to me a theory known as ‘chaos theory’.  Intrigued by the theory, I did some research on it and found it very interesting.  Every event that happens in our life has a ‘certainty’ associated to it; there seems to nothing too random. However, the randomness when seen in the butterfly effect seems to make perfect sense! At the end, all events are beautifully aligned and processed; just like the beautification from a caterpillar to butterfly.

Over the last few days, two of my friends and I have been working on a project with rigorous enthusiasm, as we saw a prospective ‘feather in our cap’. With much-do we  decided to have a rendezvous with the client.  The meeting started off on a high note, very pleased with the hospitality. Gradually the tone of the conversation took a U-turn and things seemed out of place half way through the meeting.  The more we put our point forward, the worst it got; the situation was way out of control and each perception started becoming a catalyst of ruining in its own way.

Helpless and hopeless of the situation, we politely wrapped up the conversation, calling it a day. With mixed emotions, as we took the elevator down, there was sheer silence till we excited the building and reached a restaurant for dinner. Huffing-n-puffing over Mexican food, all upset with turn of events, we started to vent our feelings.

Through the conversation, we realized our power to work as a group.
And woala….! We got the silver lining for our cloud.  We are hopeful that we progress towards bigger and better things as a group.

Moral of this write-up: Never loose hope in any situation- you never know, it could open new doors for you J. Look for the silver lining in every cloud that comes your way.


Monday, April 14, 2014

Happiness- the kickass therapy!

Life comes in its own way changing course of events (both planned and unplanned) and puts us in maze! Stumbling into a situation causing stress is nothing new to us… we have all been there and done that. With every year that goes by, we mature, become stronger, and have better strategies to un-maze the maze.

The best therapy of all times is happiness.  Oxford dictionary’s definition for happiness is “ the state of being happy.” In my opinion happiness is any activity to make you smile, and bring a smile to the person next to you. It is like a warm hug from a loved one; you feel secure and content while unwrapping your arms.

I passionately believe that happiness is a gift to share with everyone. Shimmer the smile everywhere you go. 

Here’s a list of all the crazy happy things I do. Go ahead and sprinkle happiness within and around you:
  • Hearing ‘hello’ from grandpa. Teaching him Skype
  • Talking to family
  • HUG your friend/coworker
  • Sharing food… sharing is caring J (you can resolve so many issues over food and conversation)
  •  Sitting by the lake with your best friend/friends
  • Breaking into a dance step while crossing a busy street (I’ve done this on a NY street; totally worth it!)
  • Seeing a toddler trying to walk
  • Holding a baby…
  •  Baby sitting your lill’ cousin/ friends baby and entertaining them NON-stop
  • Calling a long lost friend and saying you missed them
  • Having friends to watch a movie
  •  Saying ‘I Love YOU’ to someone special
  • Sending cakes and flowers to your friend in a different country
  • Leaving small notes to your loved one
There are so many creative ways to find happiness… its like creating a perfume; different styles, different flavors!

Have you made anyone happy today? J