Everyone deserves a second chance…

To err is human; to forgive is divine! It is said that the person who forgives has the greatest heart….

Why don’t we follow this in our daily lives?

In a perfect world, each one of us would love to live up to the decisions and promises we made during happier times. Sometimes circumstances change, and the accentuating pressure changes the dynamics of a friendship. In the more modern slang I would call it ‘S*** happens, and it’s a part of life!’ However, this doesn’t mean we kill the friendship and accuse the other person of being wrong. It will just make the whole situation vulnerable leaving the people involved injured beyond imagination.

For example: Lets look at us; we make so any mistakes yet our parents forgive us and protect us under their wings. Their love is unconditional and nothing that we do ever will change them. In my opinion, this is because they understand us beyond what we think they do and this is pretty much evident from our behavior during the teenage turbulence years. However, we take them granted and always know that they will excuse us no matter what!!

This is not the same case with friends or anyone outside the family. For a few people its takes a heart beat to say ‘lets not talk anymore’ and they never look back. We are so lost in this fast paced world that we fail to understand the other person which is a sad plight. In my opinion, we should give a second chance to everyONE! My friend Chandi always says ‘never give up on people no matter how uncontrollable the situation becomes’…and I try to follow her suggestion when I am stuck in a situation where I have to debate between the friend and my ego!

So peeps, don’t give up on people, communicate and understand their feelings before letting them go