The
change in times is leading towards diversity. Diversity comes with a its own
package of virtues and vices. Playing the devils advocate here, lets look at
some of the issues with diversity in relationships.
Love is
the amazing bond to share with the special someone. It makes you feel wonderful
and ‘makes the world around you marvelous’. In my opinion, love is worth the
experience and it’s a bliss when it transforms to a stronger relationship, also
known as marriage.
This is
all the nice side of falling in love. What happens when things turn a little
rough between the couple? Most of the couples call it quits without even trying
to sort our things. If anything in this case, today’s digital world of communication
makes it worse. Texting or leaving voice messages has become the trend to
communicate (rudely) during hard times.
Once
this stage is passed, people make the worst mistake by calling it quits.
‘Break-up’ seems to be the best solution for everyone in trouble? I fail to
understand this concept. Wouldn’t it be easier to sit and talk through the
issue instead of being a stupid? My
personal opinion is to take help, may be from a trust worthy friend or
professional help!!
While many may question: why should we try to
compromise, sit and talk, have patience and try to resolve? When things are not
working out isn’t it a peaceful solution to part and stay apart? As the saying
believed by many goes, a thread once broken has to be tied with joints and
things will never be the same. After the initial phase of joy and wonder, one realizes
it being an infatuation and not love: It being a blunder. Lets imagine for the
imagination sake: How strong would the relation get if it is talked through?
The situation might give a different perspective as we are in a more ‘saner’ mode.
Things will seem practical. We will
better appreciate the person sitting across from us, and it then becomes a two
way street for respect and love. So what is the glitch is not talking through?
If you
don’t try to make it work with the person you so call ‘love’ at the given point
in time, there is no guarantee that you will ever find a partner for a
life. Unfortunately, with all the love
dramas we witness around us, it is not very rare to see individuals walking
around with a trail of broken hearts and souls behind them.
Break-up
is NOT the solution peeps! COMMUNICATION will definitely resolve the issues, of
any kind.
